Here’s an embarrassing truth about humanity: the thing we use to understand everything is the thing we understand the least. You don’t believe me? Just look up “How does the mind work?” and see how everyone dances around the issue.
You either get a bunch of technical information about the brain, or you get a lot of spiritual meditative self-helpy stuff. We probably skip over the real issue because we’d rather not admit how little we really understand about it.